An elopement outfit isn’t just about style, it’s got to hold up when things get real. Some of the most memorable moments happen when the plan goes out the window. Like that time we hiked out to Dead Horse Point State Park for an elopement and the skies turned moody, it was incredible. Halfway through, the wind picked up and rain started falling sideways. Her elopement outfit was flying everywhere, her hair was soaked, and we were all just laughing through it. And you know what? Those photos? Turned out to be absolutely stunning.

That’s the thing about elopements, especially in places like Colorado or Dead Horse Point in Utah. Nature does what it wants, and what you wear to your elopement can make all the difference. Your elopement outfit should work with the elements, not against them. From dresses that catch the wind just right to layers that keep you warm when the sun dips behind a cliff, I’ll help you figure it all out, from what to pack to how to stay comfy, stylish, and true to you, no matter what the day throws your way.

What to Wear for Your Elopement

Your elopement outfit should feel like something you’d actually wear, not just for the photos, but for the experience. You’ll be walking, exploring, maybe hiking a little or cuddling up somewhere with a view, so comfort matters just as much as style. It’s not about being fancy for the sake of it. It’s about feeling good in your body, moving with ease, and choosing pieces that reflect who you are. Think less stiff and styled, more effortless and intentional. If you’d never wear a big poofy dress or a stiff suit in real life, you don’t need to start now. Let your outfit work with the day, not against it.

Choose pieces that move

Go for pieces that move with you. Whether it’s your elopement dress or a layered elopement outfit, fabrics like tulle, silk, and chiffon aren’t just gorgeous, they come alive in the wind and bring so much depth and emotion to your photos. Think: flowy skirts catching golden light, soft layers dancing in the breeze, and that effortless movement that makes every frame feel cinematic. Whether you’re hiking, twirling, or curled up on a cliffside, movement-friendly fabrics add that extra bit of magic without even trying.

Hair, Makeup & Weather-Proof Styling

Let’s be honest, mother nature doesn’t care if you just had your hair done. Wind, rain, altitude,  elopements come with elements that keep us on our toes, and honestly, that’s part of what makes them so memorable.

During our shoot at Dead Horse Point, the skies turned dark fast. It started raining sideways, the wind picked up, and before we knew it, her hair was soaked and whipping around her face. And you know what? We leaned into it. Her dress was flying, her hair was dripping, and it made for some of the most powerful, emotional images. That’s why it’s worth thinking through how your hair will hold up, and also why I always recommend bringing a few low-maintenance essentials, like pins, travel hairspray, and a mini mirror. But at the end of the day, it’s not about keeping every strand in place. It’s about being present, letting go, and embracing the beauty in the unplanned.

Dress for the elements

Layering is key out here! Weather can flip on you fast, sunny one minute, windy or rainy the next, especially at higher elevations. Your elopement outfit should be ready for anything, which is why I always suggest bringing a neutral jacket, wrap, or chunky knit you love (bonus points if it looks cute in photos).

And don’t worry, I’ve got you covered with umbrellas and extra blankets just in case! If it rains, we go with it. Some of the most beautiful, real moments happen when you stop trying to control the weather and just enjoy the ride.

Shoes you can actually walk in

Let’s be real, shoes can make or break your day, especially if you’re hiking to your ceremony spot or exploring uneven terrain. The right pair keeps you comfortable, supported, and present (because nothing kills the mood like aching feet). I always recommend breaking in your boots ahead of time, and if you’re planning to swap into different shoes for photos, we’ll make sure it all fits seamlessly into the day.

Whether it’s sturdy trail shoes, weatherproof boots, or something simple you can slip on and off, I’ll help you choose what works best for your location and style, so you can move freely and feel like yourself the whole way through.

Add personal details

The little details? They’re what make your outfit yours. A custom vow book, your grandma’s ring, or flowers woven into your hair, those personal touches add texture, meaning, and just the right amount of you-ness to the day. You don’t need to go over the top. It’s about choosing a few things that feel special or carry a story.

Whether it’s something passed down, something handmade, or just something that makes you feel like your best self, those details show up beautifully in photos, and make the whole experience feel that much more personal.

What He Wears Matters Too

Let’s not forget the groom! What you wear matters just as much and it doesn’t have to be stiff or overly formal to look amazing. Whether it’s a tailored suit, a textured blazer with trousers, or something more relaxed like a button-up and chinos, the key is choosing pieces that feel like you and work with the vibe of your elopement location.

 If we’re heading to the mountains or desert, I always recommend layers, weather can flip quickly, and it’s nice to have options. Earthy tones, soft neutrals, or even a pop of color can photograph beautifully in outdoor settings, especially against those big Colorado skies or red desert backdrops. Comfort is huge too, you want to feel confident and at ease, not like you’re adjusting your shirt every five minutes. This day is about feeling good, being present, and showing up as your real self. Let the outfit reflect that.

Let’s Talk Location

Where you elope really sets the tone for your whole day, so that’s always where we start. When we work together, I’ll get to know what you’re envisioning and what matters most to you. I’ll ask things like:

• Are you drawn to the mountains, desert, lakes, or forest?
• Do you want to hike a little or keep things easy to access?
• Sunrise or sunset lighting?
• Will it just be the two of you, or are a few guests joining?
• Do you already have a spot in mind, or are you open to ideas?

Once I have a feel for your answers, I help narrow down locations that not only look incredible, but feel like a good fit for your story and the kind of experience you want.

And if your dream spot (like Dead Horse Point) needs a permit, don’t stress, I’ll either walk you through the process step-by-step or take care of it for you, depending on the location!

Timeline & Seasonal Considerations

No matter how far out you’re planning, whether it’s months in advance or more of a “let’s do this soon” vibe, I’ll help you find a spot that fits.

If you’ve got time on your side, we can look at popular places that need permits or reservations. Planning last-minute? There are still some seriously stunning locations that are easy to access and don’t require a ton of prep. I’ll walk you through what’s realistic for your season and date, from weather patterns to lighting to crowd levels. And since Colorado weather likes to keep things interesting, I always bring along a few cozy backups, blankets, umbrellas, even a few creative props, just in case!

The Permit Process, Simplified

I’ll handle the behind-the-scenes so you can stay focused on what really matters: your connection and your day.

• I research all permit requirements, fees, guest limits, and timelines
• I help you fill out forms or communicate with the park offices directly
• If a location isn’t available, I’ll help you find a beautiful backup that still fits your vision

And once we’ve narrowed it down?

Zoom Planning Call: Permits + Pro Tips

We’ll hop on a call where I’ll:

• Walk you through how to apply for any needed permits
• Go over documents, timelines, and what to expect
• Share a detailed permit guide with tips and example wording
• Answer any lingering questions so you feel 100% confident!

Relax Into the Process

Your elopement isn’t a production, it’s a love story unfolding in real time. I’ll create a loose timeline beforehand so we capture all the important moments, but we’ll keep things flexible to allow for spontaneity.

If it rains, if your dress gets dusty, if the wind kicks up, it’s okay. We’ll make it part of the story. I want you to feel held and supported throughout the process. This is meant to be fun, connected, and meaningful. The photos will come naturally from there.

Finalizing the Location

Once the spot is official, I’ll help with:

• Marriage license guidance (state- and county-specific)
• A flexible timeline that includes structure and space to breathe
• A weather contingency plan (because weather will do what it wants!)
• Vendor referrals if you need anything from florals to hair/makeup

On elopement day, I’ll arrive early to scout the location, check the light, and make any adjustments to the plan.

On your elopement day, I’ll get there early to scout the spot, check the light, and make sure everything’s good to go. I always pack a few extras, blankets, umbrellas, warm layers, just in case the weather decides to do its own thing. And beyond the camera, I bring a calm, steady presence to keep things grounded and relaxed. I’m not just there to take pretty photos, I’m there to make sure you feel supported, at ease, and free to actually enjoy the day as it unfolds!

Ready to start planning your Colorado elopement?

It’s never just about the photos (though don’t worry, we’ll get some seriously dreamy ones!). It’s about creating an experience that actually feels like you, honest, connected, and a little wild in the best way.

What you wear plays a huge part in that. It’s not just about looking good, it’s about feeling comfortable, confident, and free to move, laugh, cry, explore, and fully soak in the moment without anything holding you back. Whether you’re exchanging vows at sunrise with just the two of you or sharing the moment with a few of your favorite people, your outfit should support the experience, not distract from it.

If you’re dreaming up an intentional, adventurous elopement in Colorado, Utah, or wherever your hearts are pulling you, I’d love to help bring it all to life, from finding the perfect spot and planning your timeline to figuring out exactly what to wear so the day feels true to you.

Let’s plan something real. Something honest. Something unforgettable.

Reach out here to start dreaming it up.

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If you’re planning a Colorado elopement check out my blogs, The Best Time to Elope in Colorado: A Seasonal Guide for Adventurous Couples, The 6 Best Colorado Elopement Locations, and 5 Reasons to Elope with a Travel Elopement Photographer